I am not a fan of cookie cutter anything! That even goes for cookies! For the majority of my adult life I have know that one of the best ways to break the ice and get people to open up is to ask what their favorite things are. You can learn a lot about what's good when you have enough people tell you their secret place for the best... Of course the only one that can say for sure if it really is the best is you! I can at least point you in the right direction for experiencing it yourself. For the most part, I don't think the word haven't should be used without the word yet!